Somewhat satisfied
The autofocus on the D500 is great and is its standout feature. High ISO is quite good too, for an APSC camera.
A few quibbles:
The bottom info bar in the viewfinder is unreadable in daylight, making on the fly exposure adjustments near impossible.
Battery life is not at advertised (I get 500 shots at best),
The shutter is really noisy
The Shooting Banks IMHO are a really poorly thought out idea. I have other cameras that have user defined settings right on the mode wheel and this works brilliantly. Nikon´s version is clumsy and, to my mind, more trouble than it´s worth.
To be honest I was expecting more from this camera. It is kind of neither here nor there. In most situations other than in low light an MFT camera with top notch glass and amazing IBIS would cost less, be lighter and do about as well. Most of the really good lenses for the D500 seem to be FX lenses and they are heavy. As a result with the D500 you get the disadvantage of full-frame lens weight as well as the disadvantage of a smaller DX sensor.
Would I recommend the D500? Given a yes or no choice i have to say that for the price I would recommend it particularly if you are shooting action or wildlife. However if you can pay a bit more (and depending on what you like to shoot) I think there are better options these days. For low light go full frame. For portability and flexibility go MFT.